San Francisco

August 6th - 8th

Not a member?

If you're not a Femmepire member, please fill out THIS FORM to get an invitation to purchase tickets! 


A Silver Soiree
Friday 7pm-11pm

Step into one of Soma's award winning homes and be seduced by the sound of string instruments vibrating in the air around you, the sultry voice of a mysterious singer, and all the beauty that surrounds you.  Mingle, flirt, tease and be tempted, but pace yourself, because this is just the first night... 

Dress code: Silver and / or White

Electric Violinist & Singer

100k Gold
Saturday 8pm-2am

Nestled proudly at the top of Pacific Heights, you'll ride the elevator to the top floor for a decedent night filled with treasures you'll carry with you for all of your days.  Take in the 360˚ views while you soak in the lusciousness that surrounds you.


There is a ticket option to arrive 1 hour early for

photos with a professional photographer 

(photoshoot space is limited to 20) 


Dress code: Gold and / or Black

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Gatita Negra
Bo Vixxen
Frankie Fictitious

Yoga & Brunch in the Park
Sunday 12pm-4pm

Roll out the mats.. or just roll around in the grass! You're sure to be a puddle of bliss by Sunday afternoon. Let's cross our fingers for a warm sunny day to stretch out to bikini yoga. What goes better with yoga than donuts and coffee?! 

Enjoy a very special performance from one of San Francisco's iconic singer/songwriters, Rachel Lark at 2pm  


Dress code: Comfortable for the weather and lounging

Rachel Lark
Singer / Songwriter
Sheila Bhardwaj
Yoga & Body Master

Book your Hotel Reservation
Friday Aug 6 - Sunday Aug 8

The Marker 
501 Geary Street 


Mere blocks from the world-famous Union Square, we’d like to welcome you into a hotel unlike any other. Join us in the newly renovated, Beaux-Arts style hotel in downtown San Francisco—The Marker.  Take advantage of our group discount code by clicking the link below before July 16th to reserve your room.


Femmepire Discount Code: The Marker

How do I get invited to purchase tickets?

The entire weekend is for our Femmepire community. "Femmes, Them's & those that love us". Jessica & Topanga need to know each person buying tickets, if you haven't been to one of our events, please join one of our virtual events, or set up a time to get on a call with one of us.

I'm a Femmepire member, but my friend is not. Can I invite her/them?

Most definitely! Contact Jes or Topanga and tell us about your friend.

Will it be expected of me to hook up with anyone? or wear lingerie?

Most certainly NOT. Our events are all about consent, safety, and everyone feeling their most comfortable. This is a bi-curious / bisexual / poly/ label free community to sensually explore. However these events are very sexually charged, if this is something that will make you uncomfortable, you may want to consider if this is the right event for you, as we also want those partaking in activities to also feel safe in our judgement free events.

I can't afford the full price ticket, but I really want to come! Is there a discount code, or free ticket?

Reach out to Jes or Topanga to discuss ways to get discounted or free tickets. We may be in need of help to set up or clean up in exchange for a free ticket. Some members also sponsor tickets for those that can't afford the full price. This is a judgement free zone and we understand many have been impacted financially recently.

Will there be photographs taken at the parties?

There are no phones or photos to be taken at Friday or Saturdays events. If you'd like photos at the Saturday penthouse party, please get the photoshoot ticket to arrive one hour early, at 7PM to take photos with others before the party commenses. Sunday is in a public park. Please be sure to get consent from everyone in the photograph, and for posting / tagging.

How do I become a member?

If you've been to one of our virtual events, you're a member of Femmepire! Unless you've heard otherwise from Topanga or Jes. If you'd like to purchase tix to our Femmepire weekend but you're not yet a member, you'll have to jump on one of our virtual events, or set up time to have a chat with one of our co-founders. It's easy to do, just hit us up on IG @_femmepire_ or shoot us an email